Interview: Jia’s Thoughts and Feelings About Football

Conducted by her grandmother, Denise James

Introduction

As women’s football continues to grow in visibility and power, it’s inspiring to see younger generations stepping forward with passion and confidence.

I wanted to have a conversation with my granddaughter, Jia, who is 12 years old and already dreaming of playing for Arsenal Women.

As a 60-year-old woman who plays over-40s walking football with Stepper Women of Colour WFC, I know how important it is for girls and women to see themselves represented — on and off the pitch.

This interview is a glimpse into our shared love of the game, our family connection, and our belief that football truly belongs to everyone.

THE INTERVIEW

Interviewer: Denise James
Interviewee: Jia, age 12

Denise: Hi Jia, how are you doing today?
Jia: I’m doing okay.

Denise: Thanks for agreeing to do this interview. I wanted to start by asking — in your Year 6 leavers’ assembly, you received a special certificate. What was it for?
Jia: I got “Most likely to play for Arsenal Women” in the future!

Denise: That’s wonderful! So, do you support Arsenal?
Jia: Yes, of course.

Denise: How long have you liked football?
Jia: Since I was about three. My brother used to give me his Arsenal shirts when he grew out of them, so I’ve supported Arsenal for a long time. I like playing football because it’s competitive, I’m good at it, and it’s fun!

“I like playing football because it’s competitive, I’m good at it, and it’s fun!” — Jia

Denise: You’ve been coming with me to my training sessions since 2020. Do you think I inspired your love of football too?
Jia: Yes, a bit! I like watching my nan play — and your teammates are really friendly. I like how you all work together and still have fun.

Denise: How do you rate me as a player, honestly?
Jia: (laughs) You could do better, but you’ve improved a lot!

Denise: That’s fair — honest feedback is always welcome!

Denise: Your brother plays football, and your dad used to play when he was younger — he’s even started playing with his friends again recently. Would you like to play football professionally one day?
Jia: Yes, definitely. I really want to play for Arsenal Women. I played football in primary school, and now that I’ve started secondary school, I’m playing again in the after-school club.

“I really want to play for Arsenal Women.” — Jia

Denise: I believe in you, Jia. I look forward to seeing that dream come true. Before we finish, is there anything you’d like to say about girls and women playing football?
Jia: Yes. Even though men and women have different bodies, girls and women should be able to play football — or any sport they’re interested in.

Denise: I couldn’t agree more. Thank you so much for taking part in this interview, Jia.

Closing Reflection

Speaking with Jia reminded me how far we’ve come — and how much promise lies ahead. Watching her grow in confidence and joy on and off the pitch feels like a full-circle moment.

For me, football is about connection, community, and courage — three things I see shining brightly in this next generation of young Black women.

— Denise James, Stepper Women of Colour WFC